another crappy feeling, to wake up and the girl you liked did not even want to stay in bed with you) but I thought it was simply snoring. Instead of focusing on his ED there, they should be focusing on his inability to talk openly about sex with you, to keep you in the loop of the struggles, that, in fact, directly involve you. If the cause is physical, Viagra will again help with that. A shot of whisky might too. Thanks for your message. It's a particular male vulnerability I guess, as a woman you can always have sex when you want to, including penetrative sex. For more general ethical sluttiness, responsible non-monogamy, and related non-traditional relationship styles, check out /r/NonMonogamy. I wonder if that’s an issue with your guy. Who knows. I thought of that too. Thank you so much. [–]karmicreditplan 0 points1 point2 points 8 months ago (4 children). Let me tell you, there is not a worse sound in the world then the exasperated, dissatisfied grunt a women makes when this happens. I am concerned that he has expressed desire in having a sexual and a romantic relationship with you, but given the opportunity to explore and play...? [–]baconstreet 1 point2 points3 points 8 months ago (1 child). The drugs do nothing for me if I don't have that connection. I had her over at my house and we started making out. More and more I am getting the impression that there's more going on behind the scenes that he doesn't talk about. It has to do with Oxytocin. [–]bratty_butt 0 points1 point2 points 8 months ago (0 children), [–]Katurdaisolo polyamorous 3 points4 points5 points 8 months ago (1 child). He insists he is not asexual. I'm not sure why he didn't try ED meds. I can take ED meds and still feel nothing sexually. [–]solopolygal[S] 0 points1 point2 points 8 months ago (1 child). I'm sorry you're hurt and confused. That's not okay, and he should work on communicating in a way that, at worst, leaves you disappointed in the moment, but never hurt and confused about being left in the dark. Hi there. I feel like he may be discovering a lot of things that have gone unchecked after all these years of being in a mono relationship. It's completely reasonable to desire it. Finally, one day when my boss walked into my office and i was asleep at my desk, I knew I had to have something checked out. But I think there's something else going on behind the scenes. It has nothing to do with the women, who were smart, funny, attractive, etc. I agree that breaking up over it seems extreme, could it be that the ED is evidence that somehow he can't feel safe with you in general? Perhaps you can talk to him about experimenting with things with no expectation of sex. Get an ad-free experience with special benefits, and directly support Reddit. I'm quite sure the wife's bond has worn off already(probably years ago) and she was probably already with someone else or considering someone else before she decided to "open" the marriage. I think a lot of people have a hard time even being honest with themselves about certain things, let alone opening up about it to others...even when the other person truly is willing to hold space for them. I just couldn’t. I met a woman shortly after that who I connected with on a deep level through phone calls and chat before we met in-person. And I'm very interested in considering how he is enacting measures of control in order to avoid the intimacy of difficult communications. That's not something to just end easily especially as a man and with such prolonged oxytocin bonding with one woman. I would want to know more about what his communication is with his wife and whether or not their dynamic is a safe foundation for him enacting relationships outside of their marriage. When we left that night, I was able to have sex with my wife without any issue. It made sense to me. I needed less sleep at night, and during the day I was full of energy. He wasn't able to elaborate. I couldn’t do an open relationship because the pain of that and knowing she was with other guys and was using me... it was all too much. (I have very fair skin). Off to the doc, get the manic pills after some tests, blamo! Breaking it off was an attempt to not think/worry about it anymore, but then he probably regretted it because he's into you. He did send me an email last night, and I told him I would be open to continuing to date but told him to take some time to himself first to think about if he is really able to have relationship right now and also what he wants a relationship with me to look like and then we can get together and talk about it. So although you may feel he has a "connection" with you...and he may in fact has some kind of connection with you... it may not be the same type of "sexual" connection you are thinking. [–]GreenSatyr 2 points3 points4 points 8 months ago (1 child), He insisted that it wasn't healthy to put our physical relationship aside and then a few days later he ended things claiming that he couldn't offer me a physical relationship at this time. I had been having bad sexual encounters with women. There are no risks to undergoing … I hear you and I agree entirely with what you're saying but the challenge is that he wants to have penetrative sex and so do I. [–]solopolygal[S] 2 points3 points4 points 8 months ago (1 child). If he develops a true connection to you, then she will lose her way of life. If you were having a lot of other kinds of sex and he just didn’t want to take the ED meds for medical reasons? That's where I'm at now- just stepping back and letting him figure it out. It's not as if a penis is a requirement for good sex; lesbian women manage to on the average get each other off somewhat MORE often than heterosexual men manage to get women off after all. We engaged in a lot of different sexual acts and it was satisfying but both of us wanted to have penetrative sex as well. Basically, long story short: ED drugs are highly effective and help with both performance-based anxiety and physical causes of ED, and can be obtained in a 15-minute or less doctor's appointment. I feel like I’m cheating and that turns my switch firmly to the off position. Thank you so much for your response. Especially so if it's been 10+ years since they've had to wear them. As sad as it is to lose this connection, I'm just going to have to let him go and see what happens. tell me when he felt ready, tell me what he wanted). Erectile Dysfunction Can Be A Precursor To Diabetes – Studies have linked erectile dysfunction to type 2 diabetes. In fact, he actively enjoys a sexual relationship with his wife and says he wants to be having more sex. What I think is going on is his wife wanted to "step out" or has already stepped out and suggested "opening" the marriage so that she can sleep around. Lol, no one considered the possibility that he just loves his wife? Erectile Dysfunction Symptoms Age, [Symptoms Age] Heinen Bros Ag. Some as complicated as mine, and some leaning more toward asexual. I have already asked him and told him it was Ok if he just wanted a non-sexual, romantic relationship but he insists that's not the case. I guess now I feel like maybe he wasn't that into me, although that's not what he kept saying and continues to say, so it's very confusing. I pretty much conditioned myself to being forever alone. When I mentioned that I'd like to try to work on having sex I explained that I just wanted a bit more communication from him. There are times I don't want sex, but am happy to "help". Sounds like you've chosen already and the answer is no? [–]solopolygal[S] 6 points7 points8 points 8 months ago (5 children).

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